A prostate massager is simply one of the most pleasurable, best sex toys for men there is. It will give you stronger, harder orgasms. And if that’s enough of an endorsement for you, fantastic, keep scrolling, enjoy yourself.
For everyone else, let’s start with an anatomy lesson. If you have male sexual organs, you have a prostate, a walnut-sized gland located just two or three inches past your anus. This thing is jam-packed with nerve endings. When properly stimulated, it can lead to Earth-shattering, full-body orgasms. You know how when you typically ejaculate, it feels great—and localized to your genital area? When you get off with a prostate massager inside you, you feel it everywhere. We’re talking left pinky toe and right eyeball. It’s great.
Now, the best way to stimulate the prostate is with a dedicated prostate massager. They differ from other backdoor toys like butt plugs and anal beads because they are specifically designed to hit that button. That’s why most of them look pretty similar, with a slightly curved bulbous head. There are differences, however. Most of them vibrate, but some don’t. Some are small and friendly for first-timers, while others are a bit bigger. And some of them have a second part that hugs your perineum, that strip of skin that extends between your anus and the base of your testicles. (You know, the taint.) This helps to keep the prostate massager in place so you can move around and do stuff like penetrate your partner while the massager remains firmly tucked away. (This also makes it one of the best sex toys for couples!)
If you’ve never dabbled with any anal play, I know this can all sound intimidating. But if you ask me, there has never been a better time to start sticking things up your rear end than being stuck at home during a pandemic. I mean, why not? Those nerve endings are already back in there, just waiting for a little stimulation.
The Best Prostate Massager
Lelo “Hugo” prostate massager
The best massager on the market, bar none. It’s expensive, but if you plan on using it more than a few times, then there’s no reason not to splurge. The incredible precision of the vibrations separates Hugo from the pack. To control the speed and intensity, you simply tilt the circular remote. So if you tilt down and to the right, the vibrations will be stronger on the back right side. It’s like laser-guided access to where you experience the most pleasure.
The Best Inexpensive Prostate Massager
Aneros “Helix Trident” prostate stimulator
Prostate massagers are pricey, which makes a certain amount of sense. (You don’t want to stick just anything up there.) The Helix Trident is on the cheaper side, as it goes. Unlike the other toys on the list, this one doesn’t vibrate, but it still works great, particularly if you’re completely new to anal play and prostate stimulation—the Helix is a great starter toy. If you determine you love the sensation of something inside you, then you can upgrade to a more expensive vibrating model.
The Best Vibrating Prostate Massager
We-Vibe Vector App and Remote Controlled Rechargeable Prostate Massager
The Vector is a classic vibrating prostate massager—it’s made of high-quality silicone and has powerful vibrations along with a remote control that’s simple to use. This one stays particularly snuggly in place, making it a great to have inside of you while you penetrate your partner.
The Best XL Prostate Massager
Desire Luxury Rechargeable Girthy P-Spot Vibrator
Most prostate massagers are roughly the same shape and size. The Desire Girthy P-Spot Vibrator is thicker than traditional massagers, making it ideal for men who are a little more experienced or who really like the sensation of feeling full.
The Best Long-Distance Prostate Massager
Lovense “Edge 2”
Lovense blew up during the pandemic because they are the premier long-distance sex toy company. You can connect every Lovense toy to an app and, using Bluetooth, your partner can control the device from hundreds of miles away. The Edge 2 is a fantastic prostate massager to use during FaceTime sex. If you’re feeling particularly kinky and want to keep it in, your partner can surprise you with little zaps throughout the day.
The Best Experts-Only Prostate Massager
Fun Factory “Duke” vibrating prostate massager
The Duke isn’t messing around—it should only be used by anal pros. It goes much further inside your rectum than any other massager on this list: it has three separate components that stimulate various highly-sensitive erogenous zones. The first part extends far past your prostate, hitting the deep inner walls of your rectum. The second section directly nuzzles against your prostate, and the third and final section hugs your perineum to help keep the toy in place. Given how much area it covers, the Duke leads to incredibly powerful orgasms.
The Best Rimming Stimulator
b-Vibe Rimming Plug
Technically, the Rimming Plug from b-Vibe is a butt plug, but it’s worth considering because it is one of the only anal toys on the market that all simulates the feeling of a tongue—it uses these cool rotating beads. Usually when you’re getting rimmed you don’t have anything inside of you because if you did, your partner wouldn’t be able to get in there. So even it you’re not new to butt stuff it’s an incredibly novel sensation to have something penetrating you while also feeling something on the outside.
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By Zachary Zane